tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-630908260439894115.post8214338534625514224..comments2023-07-28T09:41:09.701-04:00Comments on Unrequired Love? A chronicle of my dating adventures on the quest to find love: Making the first moveGeorgia Peachhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02512812467528547952noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-630908260439894115.post-67711967339304460022009-03-20T16:14:00.000-04:002009-03-20T16:14:00.000-04:00Thanks ladies - I definitely didn't think I was c...Thanks ladies - I definitely didn't think I was coming off as desperate, but I am curious about what some of the men think. Crickets from them huh?Georgia Peachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512812467528547952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-630908260439894115.post-41750376290758413802009-03-20T13:52:00.000-04:002009-03-20T13:52:00.000-04:00Thanks for the shout out Glee! I tried to comment ...Thanks for the shout out Glee! I tried to comment on Wednesday, but it wouldn't let me post, so I was going to come back to it. I was reminded when I commented on today's blog (Friday) that I had to go back...and this time it seems to be working!<BR/><BR/>Anywho...there is nothing wrong with making the first move, especially if you sense the man would be receptive to it, but may just be shy. I think most REAL men would find it sexy as hell, and it would tell them that you were confident - not desperate. <BR/><BR/>The trick is not to come on TOO strong. That is where the desperation comes in. It's about reading a person's vibe. Simply approaching a man isn't desperate - it's about if you COME OFF that way in your approach. I've seen women buy men drinks (sexy as hell) and then the man takes over from there. But I've also seen women try to monopolize a man's time, act in a jealous manner, be OVERLY flirtatious, and just downright annoying in their approach - which is where the look of desperation comes in. <BR/><BR/>You're right - it IS a balancing act. You have to hav the right balance of flirtatiousness and cool, forthrightness (is that a word?) and femininity. It takes practice...and CONFIDENCE. And you definitely have that! So work it girl!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-630908260439894115.post-74220139129573894662009-03-19T08:02:00.000-04:002009-03-19T08:02:00.000-04:00I don't think that woman making the first move...I don't think that woman making the first move are desperate at all. You see what you want & you went after it. No harm in that. If it was a job no one would think twice. You would just be ambitious. Also like you say if you were a man this wouldn't be a question in your head. My thing is you can't please everyone soo just please yourself!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com